One of the downsides of travel and living abroad is that we can’t always be with our loved ones when they’re celebrating milestones and annual events like weddings, birthdays or even Mother’s Day.
Having now lived in a different country to my family and friends back in New Zealand for many years, this is something that I’ve sadly become used to, but I know not everyone is!
Things are more than a little different for most of us right now and I know people are having to get used to being away from family and friends when they wouldn’t normally be. But that doesn’t mean that you, or they, have to miss out!
Although I’ve missed a lot of important occasions, I always try to send a gift whenever I can. Sending gifts to loved ones overseas is fun because you can choose a present that you know the person will love and then get the anticipation of waiting for them to get it before you can share in the excitement with them.
Everyone loves getting mail after all!
However, in recent years I’ve taken to ordering gifts online and having them sent directly rather than shopping in person.
Partly because it saves time and often postage but also because it’s not always as easy to find the perfect gift on the high street as it can be online.
And now, of course, this is the only way for many of us!
Over time, I’ve also taken to gifting experiences rather than things.
Why give a gift experience?
Whether shopping in person isn’t an option or I’m searching for something for the impossible to buy for person in my life, there are lots of reasons to gift an experience.
I always treasure having new experiences with family and friends and taking them out for a treat in person, so it’s amazing to have the opportunity to still treat them from afar.
But what do I mean when I say “gift experience”?
A gift experience allows you to buy that special someone something to DO rather than something to HAVE. And this means there are a wealth of different ideas to choose from!
In the past, I’ve gifted a half-day of mountain biking to my husband for his birthday one year and walking around the top of a skyscraper for another.
I’ve also kindly been on the receiving end of gifted meals and massages from my in-laws.
My Mum loved getting her nails done for Mother’s Day one year and going for afternoon tea last year. As much as I couldn’t be with her on the day I got to see all of her photos and talk to her about her experience which helped me to feel like I’d done something special for her even though I couldn’t see her.
Ultimately, giving a gift experience is like giving a gift voucher but for something a little more memorable.
Imagine getting a gift of that one thing you’ve always wanted to do but you know would never buy for yourself!
What kind of experiences can you gift?
Here are a few other ideas of what you can expect when you’re looking to buy someone a gift experience.
Adventurous Activities
There’s always lots of adventurous experiences to choose from, which is great if your loved one is into that sort of thing or you want to surprise them with a bit of a thrill. Some examples are:
- Bungee Jumping
- Cycling or mountain biking
- Parasailing
- Balloon ride
- Boat rides
- Horseriding
- Surf Lessons
- Whitewater Rafting
- Kayaking/Canoeing
Food Experiences
Food experiences are always a winner, surely!
- Food tours
- Brewery or Distillery Tours
- Fancy dinner out
- Afternoon Tea
City Sights
City experiences can include a few different things but would usually mean something like a city tour or a visit to an iconic place like the Rockefeller Centre or Statue of Liberty in New York for example.
These can be great for visitors but they can also be a fantastic gift for locals, allowing them to learn something about their home town they might not otherwise have found out.
Pampering
Need I say more?
There are often spa packages available as gift experiences and I’ve had my fair share of those over the years as well! Often in combination with an afternoon tea too, I’m very lucky/spoiled by my friends and family!
There are so many options for gifting an experience to friends and family who aren’t where you are!
Sonja x